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Author: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
Publisher: Simon Spotlight Entertainment
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For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.
He’s afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he’s intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.
Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that — despite good intentions — you’re wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they’d like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth may be He’s just not that into you.
Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman “You’re not the one.” But their actions absolutely show how they feel.
HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU — based on a popular episode of Sex and the City — educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn’t like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.
Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mind-sets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo’s wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean “I’m in love with you and want to be with you.”
HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman’s night table. It knows you’re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start “figuring him out,” consider the glorious thought that maybe He’s just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.
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He’s Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman’s night table. It knows you’re a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start “figuring him out,” consider the glorious thought that maybe He’s just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.
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This book was an interesting read, although I didn’t agree with all of the theory within. I liked some of the ways that it tried to open women’s eyes and see themselves in more positive lights, however it completely assumed that all men were cut from the same cloth. It was certainly interesting, but I found it flawed.
This book is a staple when trying to figure out if he’s ‘The One’ or if ‘The One’ has just walked out the door and all over your heart (Hint: he isn’t). No matter how badly I feel when a relationship ends, Greg puts it all in perspective for me. Yes, I cry, bargain, deny - I experience all those stages. Then I read Greg’s words, and realize that if ______ (insert latest breakup’s name here) really wanted to be around, he would be. By the end of the book, you won’t want to ‘waste the pretty’ on another guy who is so NOT worth your precious time.
I love this book. It tells the truth about how guys think, in a simple, straight-forward, yet amazingly accurate way. It’s chock full of examples that help illustrate the authors’ point: Men are simple. They make time for women they’re hot for, no matter how busy or preoccupied they are. If your guy is full of excuses as to why he can’t be with you/call you/email or text you, the reality is inescapable…he’s just not that into you. Quick, entertaining, informative read. Buy it and never live in denial again!
When I first read this book I was amazed at how much crap and excuses I put up with. Then after some time I started dating someone, who I got really serious with, he showed a lot of “into me” signs. But I should of never packed away this book b/c it turned out as time went by this guy started showing the “I’m not that into you” anymore signs and as I go back and read this book again I wish I had remembered a lot of it. It would of saved me a lot of wasted time and heartache with a person who was never really right for me. Thanks Greg! Your Awesome!
Greg has soooo spared women the heartache of millions of women should they buck up and take his advice! So many women make the mistake of making excuses for lame-duck relationships or would-be lame duck relationships, because of their inability to read the “red flag” warnings.
I found this book honest being reproach and highly entertaining. I saw myself saying alot of these things in the past, and although I don’t need the advice these days, I was more than happy to pass it along to someone who does!
Thanks, Greg! You ROCK!